David Epstein, of Range fame has a marvellous weekly bulletin which consistently makes me think. This post on what you ask an Olympian when they’ve just won, or an author or playwright who’s just published, or anyone who’s just finished a HUGE project. We tend to ask
What’s next
When we could instead ask
What are you enjoying now?
Which would be less pressure for them, and no doubt a less cliched conversation.