Loretta Ross on Adam Grant’s podcast talking about her book, Calling in – how to start making peace with those you’d rather cancel.
She distinguishes
calling them out
from
calling them in
and
Trauma-informed behaviour
and
trauma-driven behaviour
(hint, the second is not as good as the first). She tells the story of a work friend telling her that she should chill a little – they said
It should be fun to hunt Nazis. If it’s not then pay attention
(but it should not be fun to BE a nazi).
